In my post Steps in Life I suggested choosing a religion for yourself first and then choosing a religion to associate with. This order is wrong. The first step for every decent person should be to start attending a sex-segregated religious service.
Why sex-segregated? Because this shows that the religion is resistant to depraved modern culture. To those who argue that sex-segregation isn't required in your scripture, I suggest that you stop breathing since breathing isn't required in your scripture either. The need to segregate the sexes is as obvious as the need to breathe.
Why must this come first? Because it is critical for you to find other people in real life who aren't scum. All members of modern western culture, without exception, are scum. The only place where you can find people who aren't scum is in a religion that resists modern culture, as demonstrated by sex-segregation. This isn't to say that such a religion won't also contain scum, or even that the majority won't be scum, but at least you will find some people who aren't scum. And this is the critical point. Having a few people in real life to talk to who aren't scum is absolutely critical, and this should be the first thing that you should find.